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Marriage. The whole experience is designed for people seeking a committed, long-term partner — not casual dating.
When you create a profile (or paste a short note for our AI to build one), we learn what matters to you — faith, community, education, goals — and introduce a small set of genuinely aligned people instead of an endless feed.
No one, until you and another member have both expressed interest. Your email and phone stay hidden until a mutual match, and even then they're only shared with that person.
Chat unlocks only after a mutual match — you like someone and they like you back. Until then, no messaging is possible, which keeps the experience respectful.
Verified matchmaking agencies can introduce candidates on their behalf. Whenever a profile is managed by an agency, you'll see a clear 'Represented by' badge so you always know who you're talking to.
Creating a profile and matching is free. Some convenience features may be offered as a paid upgrade, but the core experience — finding and connecting with matches — does not require payment.
Still stuck? Contact us or visit the help center.